Advice

A section dedicated to responding to questions sent in by you. Have a question, problem or struggle? And, would like some advice, input or another point of view? Simply fill out the contact form. And, I’ll write a post to you. All personal information will remain private.. And, each response will be given in a vague, yet specific format that keeps you anonymous.

Get Going

Time easily escapes us. We have our must do, need to do, should do lists - Lists so long that they're impossible to get done. Nevertheless daunting to think about doing. Tomorrow becomes our tried & t...

A Thought Running Astray

I think... "I need to write." I grab paper & pen, My preferred writing style. Then, I sit and wait For words to come to me. Strangely, they don't. Or, when they do I reread them - And, throw t...

Dealing With Problems

Problems... I've been dealing with a string of them - Household problems Health problems Technology problems Website problems All streaming in at once. Part of me wants to go to bed - And wake u...

On Seeking Clarity

I envy people who go forth in absolute clarity. For me, clarity comes & goes. There are two types: 1. Clarity of the mind 2. Clarity of the heart The heart's desires rarely waver. The mind, on the...

The Living Dead

Journal Entry: Wednesday April 25, 2018 (7:20am)   For months I've been concerned that something might be wrong with me. I've been consumed with a growing desire to withdraw from the world. I run all ...

In Search Of Fast Results

The crux of most of our life issues lies in the gap between what we want - and what actually is. This chasm creates suffering & angst. How do you get from A to B? Or, for some... Something that feels ...

“I Can’t Get Myself To…”

You want to do something. You need to do something. But you can't get yourself to follow through. To get to the bottom of it, ask: Why? Or... Why not? Usually our inability to take action comes...

Confusion Over Small Change – Resolved

I've been asked why I've said: Small shifts create massive change. And... Small shifts can create little to no change. Why? It depends on the type of shift you make whether the cumulative effect wi...

Why Is Change So Difficult?

Change is so difficult because to change requires change. As a way to conserve energy (and a sense of ego), the brain relies on habits. Many of which are layered & embedded into each other. So that chan...

I Need More Motivation…

Actually... No. You do not. A heavy reliance on "motivation" to achieve our goals is one of the biggest self help lies. You need a reason. It helps to have a really, really good one. Once you have th...